If you're looking for a way to change things in your bedroom, then I recommend trying a strap-on dildo. Strap-up games are fun for anyone, lesbian or not. Lace-up shoes add a certain kink as well as a new sense of intimacy between couples. You can learn a few things about each other, and you can spice up your bedroom game with straps.
How to put on a seat belt？
Let the fun begin! The strap has two parts: the harness and the dildo. The seat belt is the part of the belt that usually goes around the wearer's hips. Most harnesses look like boxer briefs or panties (underwear look) or multiple straps, depending on your size and style preferences. Making sure your dildo and harness are compatible is crucial, as the dildo fits through the O-shaped opening, so you definitely want to check compatibility.
Ready for a wild ride? The following steps will guide you through the process of putting on your seat belt. Remember, these are the basic steps assuming you've purchased a standard harness with O-rings and metal snaps to hold the dildo in place. So grab your best strap-on dildo and let's go!
1. Remove the o-ring from the harness. Some harnesses have interchangeable loops to accommodate different dildo sizes, but most have only one loop.
2. Pass the dildo through the O-ring. Placing a dildo is essential and may take some practice before you get it right.
3. Use the metal snap to reattach the O-ring so that the dildo stays firmly in the harness and doesn't come off, even if things get a little rough and wet.
4. Put on your braces just like you put on your boxers or briefs.
5. You want the seat belt to fit snugly against your hip bone, so take the time to adjust it.
6. If your seat belts include thigh straps, now is the time to adjust them too.
7. Lubricate! We cannot stress enough the importance of lube, especially when it comes to seat belts!
8. Hold the dildo as you initially insert your partner. Take it easy! Slow and steady allows both of you to get used to the feeling and experiment with sex positions.
9. No need for your hands once inserted. The main thing to remember is that you have to pay attention to the dildo because if it slips out you probably won't notice it right away because you can't feel it.
Now, are you ready to be rocked? When learning the different ways of how to use a harness, it's important to remember that the harness doesn't have to go around your pelvis. You can find a harness that fits your head, feet, chin, legs or hands. You can follow these necessary steps with any type of strap and just correct the body part where the dildo is attached. Look, the possibilities are truly endless in the strapping department!
How to use seat belts correctly？
There is no wrong way to use straps! As long as everyone agrees and have fun, it's a versatile erotic sex toy that can help you achieve almost any fantasies. For women, the straps are usually designed to press tightly against the clitoris as they penetrate, so they can orgasm by moving. But for anyone with genitals, they can bring the same rewards.
The main thing to remember is that once you've assembled the strap, successfully put it on, and secured it to your body, it's to use a lot of lube. We believe that you can never use too much oil! No matter where you plan to put your dildo, lube is essential for optimal stimulation. Even self-lubricating areas like the vagina and mouth can benefit from a little extra smoothness. It keeps everything running smoothly and makes sure your porn game doesn't hurt!
Sometimes bondage sex can be an emotional experience for both parties. You may feel vulnerable with a strap-on dildo on, or your partner may feel intimidated the first time they try it. If something happens to you, let it appear. As with any other sexual activity, the most important thing is communication. Keep checking each other throughout the process before talking about it. Banding games are fun. You just have to get up the courage to try it yourself.