If you have been considering using straps on dildos, you may have questions about their safety. Since you can't actually feel the artificial penis strapped to your pelvis, you may worry about accidentally hurting your partner. Well, as long as you follow these simple precautions, you can rest assured that the straps on sex toys are completely safe.
Try on size
If you are using a strap penis for the first time, you should try it on beforehand. Make sure that the dildo or vibrator is firmly installed in the seat belt. Figure out how to put on the seat belt so that all the different belts are in the correct position. Then try to walk around with the shoulder strap so you can adjust to how it feels. This step is especially important for women, because they are not used to things dangling between their legs!
Check and double check your shoulder strap
In the safe use of straps, a well-fitting strap is essential. The shoulder straps should be snug enough to hold the dildo and the straps on the seat belt in place, but not too tight to cut off blood circulation. Your dildo and seat belt will move slightly. However, if they move and slide around your hips and crotch, the straps are not tight enough. This safety reminder is essential to secure everything in place and ensure that you can maintain control.
Communicate with your partner
Since you cannot really feel what is happening through the fake penis, you need to communicate closely with your partner. This means asking them questions during sex to make sure everything feels good, and if they are not very talkative, also observing their body language. As always, if it doesn't feel right, you should be prepared to stop immediately, especially when trying the anus.
Use a lot of lubricating oil
Be sure to use a lot of lubricating oil on the belt. We strongly recommend the use of water-based anal lubricants, even during vaginal use. Anal lubricants are thicker and longer lasting than ordinary lubricants, which makes them more suitable for being attached to sex toys.
So, whether you’re playing with pegging, exploring or affirming gender, or just want your hands free for even more pleasure and fun, harnesses let you engage with your toy and your partner in new and wonderful ways! Strap one on and explore!
Most importantly, remember to have fun!