Vibrators are probably the most common form of sex toy. There are a variety of products on the market, and many are specifically designed for hands-free use. Hands-free vibrators are usually designed to be worn or seated on. They may fit underpants or be secured by your own anatomy. With some vibrators, you have to turn them on before putting them in place. These can be a bit difficult to adjust when in use, so it's worth taking some time to find the settings that work for you. If you want to be able to change settings without having to stop mid-session, look for a vibrator with a remote. More and more vibrators come with remote controls, and can even be controlled via an app on your phone.
What is a "hands-free vibrator"?
I totally get it, that's a lot of words and you've probably never heard of this type of toy before. A hands-free strap is a vibrator with a strap that is strapped to your thigh for hands-free fun.
There are two types of hands-free vibrators: penetrating and non-penetrating. So a penetration toy will have some sort of small dildo attached that you can insert into your vagina (or anus). And for those looking for direct clitoral stimulation, a non-penetrating strap-on vibe is better.
How do you use it?
You can use your hands-free vibrator in a number of different ways. It's a toy that's designed to be fun for people with vaginas, but can definitely be used with a partner for a little more fun. Below I have listed some suggestions and ideas for using hands-free toys:
1. Hands-free masturbation
This may seem obvious, but I have to say it. Hands-free toys are a great option for masturbation. This way you can put the toy in the correct position and lie back and enjoy. The best way to masturbate while using this type of toy is to put it on and put your panties over it. This will put some extra pressure on your clitoris and make sure the vibrator stays in place! Also, if you're using piercing straps, putting your panties over them will make your ride easier.
A pro tip for masturbating while wearing a strap-on vibrator is to sit in a chair and rock back and forth while using the vibrator. This eventually leads to an unreal orgasm.
2. During penetration
Another way to use a handsfree strap is when your partner penetrates you! That's right, you can use it as an easier alternative to using a regular vibrator during sex. Position it the same way, then slide the vibrator further up your clitoris so it doesn't get in the way of your partner.
Since your hands are not occupied by the vibrators, they are free to explore other parts of your body or your partner. This will create an intense orgasm by building up the sensation!
3. Improve speaking skills
So, I know that doing the classic and famous 69 blowjob position is very popular. I get it, it's sexy. You're both bringing joy to each other at the same time, but honestly, I think we all know that 69 can get uncomfortable very quickly. I'm not talking about 69-year-old crap here, but I'm here to offer an alternative.
To keep you and your partner happy at the same time, you can wear a hands-free vibrator while giving your partner oral sex. Have your lover sit on the couch and kneel while already wearing the vibrator. When you give them oral sex, hand the remote to your vibrator so they can control your pleasure too. It can be very hot and the two of you still give each other pleasure and there is less chance of being uncomfortable!
There are fewer sex toys on the market designed for complete hands-free penetration. Most require some level of manipulation to insert and stay in place. However, some come with some great hands-free features that help make them more accessible.
The simplest hands-free insertion toy is a dildo with a suction cup base. These can be attached to smooth surfaces, such as the edge of a bathtub or tile floors. If you're able to get them in the right place to start, then a dildo without a base or a vibrator to insert might work for you. Some internal vibrators add thrust or motion functionality. Secure them between your thighs or with the help of a pillow, and they do the work for you while you lie back and enjoy the ride. Likewise, many butt plugs and anal toys are designed to stay in place once inserted. Look for products with flared or T-shaped bases and a narrowed "neck" for added comfort and safety.
Solo sex is a wonderful thing. Knowing that no matter where we are in the world -- no matter what's going on in our lives -- we can reliably get off the bus if we want to, is a huge comfort. Literally, we don't need men -- and we don't need women, and we don't need anyone else. Even in solitude, we can be completely self-sufficient (at least, in this area). With the help of some hands-free sex toys, we can take this self-reliance to a whole new level of fun.
Because hands-free sex toys are hands-free, they actually require you to be creative. Your hands are officially freed from the responsibility of holding sex toys - now it's up to you to decide what to do with them. Do you let them wander where they like? Do you take this opportunity to try out new poses, or angles that seem impossible when your hands need to be involved in the action? Or would you simply unwind, relax, and indulge in a deeper indulgence of lazy indulgence - leaving your hands to do nothing at all?
The sheer beauty of a hands-free sex toy is that it makes you forget how self-sufficient you are. When you're with your partner, you get joy without having to do all the work yourself. There are usually some concessions, and the balance is nearly impossible to replicate with sex alone. But hands-free sex toys get you one step closer to that interaction. Yes, you have to do some work - you have to buy a sex toy, figure out how to use it, and keep it clean and charged. But once you've gone through these very basic steps, you can take a step back and let the toy do as much (or as little) as you want.
One that's as insane as masturbation, single-player sex games often require a lot of geeky work. Yes, a dynamite vibrator would make the experience easier, but all that mobility? Pooh! Seeing it successfully requires skill, focus, and usually at least at least a helping hand. But what if you want to use that hand to touch other erogenous zones, or scroll through the news on your phone, or knit a blanket? For these pursuits, and the reason for increased accessibility for some who can't use hand-operated sex toys, hands-free vibrators are important.