Dildos and vibrators are similar, but they are also quite different. How do you decide whether to choose a vibrator or a dildo? Here's a comprehensive guide through 6 different concepts to consider when understanding the differences and deciding which sex game is best for you!
1. Purpose:
Both dildos and vibrators are made for penetrative sexual pleasure (usually vaginal), but vibrators can also be used for clitoral stimulation.
Vibrator: The vibrator provides a super stimulating experience by combining penetrating pleasure with sensory pleasure vibrations. Vibrators usually do double duty—meaning they provide both internal and clitoral stimulation. With multiple pulsation and power options, vibrators have more options for stimulation possibilities than dildos.
Dildos: Dildos are more for penetrating pleasure. Dildos usually mimic a penis in shape and are used to provide internal stimulation like a penis. Some dildos can be double penetration, which means they allow you to insert the toy into your anus and vagina at the same time. Ultimately, dildos are designed to fill the vagina in the manner of a penis, so most of the time dildos don't vibrate, as real penises don't.
2. Shape and Form:
Both dildos and vibrators can have "penis-like" characteristics; however, there are many more types of vibrators than dildos.
Vibrators: Vibrators come in many shapes, from stylishly simple to penis-shaped to totally futuristic looking! In fact, some double-acting vibes may look like rabbits, butterflies, or even petals.
Dildos: Conversely, dildos more accurately simulate important penis characteristics such as size, shape, and texture than vibrators. For example, some dildos contain veins, balls, and even have different skin tones. We also have chunky dildos and others are just penis shapes, but with smooth, vibrant, and colorful options!
3. Vibration:
The number one difference between a dildo and a vibrator is that a vibrator, well, vibrates. All vibrators vibrate, although there is a bit of crossover (some dildos vibrate). make sense?
Vibrators: There are many variations in the vibrating possibilities of vibrators. You have a standard vibrator that may have only one vibration setting or multiple speeds from low to high. Some offer different settings or modes, from constant vibration to intermittent to pulsating. The dual action provides both clitoral and internal vibrations. The key to a vibrator is this: it vibrates in a certain way, shape or form!
Dildos: Standard dildos do not vibrate and usually have a suction cup base for hands-free play. However, some dildos have a vibrating function! These are considered vibrating dildos rather than being labeled as vibrators.
4. Materials:
In terms of materials, there is actually a lot of crossover between dildo and vibrator.
Vibrators: Vibrators are usually made of more flexible materials, such as jelly or silicone. This material contributes to and enhances the pulsations and vibrations it is designed to perform, and these materials are thin enough to allow the vibrations to flow through.
Dildo: A dildo must be fairly strong to mimic an erect penis. A loose dildo is useless for us; we want a nice, stiff shaft to help us move forward! Because dildos don't have to worry about vibration, they can be made of silicone or other harder materials. Glass dildos provide an ultra-tight, smooth and stimulating touch. You can also try a jelly dildo for a more flexible feel.
5. Stimulus Possibilities:
Both dildos and vibrators offer a variety of stimulation methods, from internal stimulation to clitoral stimulation to G-spot stimulation.
Vibrators: Since many women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, if you're looking for a "one-stop shop" type of toy, a vibrator might be the way to go because it vibrates and provides great clitoral stimulation! The special G-Spot vibrator can help stimulate your G-Spot for amazing G-Spot orgasms. For the best of both worlds, the dual action provides both internal and external arousal!
Dildos: Dildos are a great option for internal arousal because they come in a variety of sizes, from small to large. Traditionally, they are also available in various hardnesses. Plus, a dildo is definitely a good option for anal stimulation (as long as it's designed for anal play). If you're looking for hands-free stimulation, you can use a thrust dildo to do the job for you. Many dildos help with G-spot stimulation because they can be made with "curved" ends that don't bend under pressure, which is great for G-spot stimulation. Also, most dildos are made with suction cup bases that can be used with strap-on harnesses for lesbian love or other types of strap-on play!
6. Cost:
Vibrators and dildos come in a wide price range, depending on options, materials, and features.
Vibrators: Vibrators can be very cheap (like a basic vibe) or very expensive for a model with all the bells and whistles. There are many options for vibrators these days, and the most expensive luxury models on the market can cost over $200. Think premium silicone, rechargeable, etc. Are they worth it? Well, any toy that gets me to orgasm in a minute is definitely worth the higher price tag in my book, you can mix and match all the features in a variety of prices to find the best fit!
Dildos: Dildos are generally less expensive than vibrators. Because they have no "moving" parts or motors, they come with a lower price tag. Sure, high-end dildos made of silicone can be a little more expensive, but, it's worth it because they usually last for many years.
But, which one should I buy?
The question remains: which one should you get? This is subjective, so ask yourself a personal question: what do you like? Do you want to have a G-spot orgasm, or do you better orgasm while experiencing what a real penis feels like?
Then, think of it as an orgasm à la carte line - consider using dildo insertions and small vibrators to stimulate your clitoris! Sex games are just that: play. Play is a form of self-discovery, so try to find a toy that looks appealing to you, or one that makes your body tingle and your toes crooked just looking at it. Try it, try it -- but please -- try it!