Oh hey, we all know vibrators are one of the most popular toys for helping women have sex, but is it okay to use vibrators during pregnancy? Friends and family of expectant mothers or mothers-to-be! Today we're going to talk about using a vibrator during pregnancy...in the details, is it safe, is it encouraged, or is it a big no-no?
Of course, we are looking at giving you sound advice, including meeting any physical needs and making your pregnancy as comfortable as possible.
We will also look at physical changes in women during pregnancy, including their levels of arousal and hormonal changes. Welcome to the joy of getting ready to bring new humans into the world!
Pregnancy: first trimester
It is common for women to experience a loss of libido in the first trimester. This is because her body is undergoing dramatic changes, which often shift the focus from the simple pleasures of life, namely sex and masturbation, to physical discomforts such as morning sickness and mood changes.
Pregnancy: Second trimester
During the second trimester, pregnant women often see their libido rise again. This is partly because, for many, morning sickness subsides slowly, and women become more comfortable with their bodies, often showing "pregnancy glows." Blood flow also increases in the second trimester, which often makes a woman's genitals feel more sensitive and creates a more pleasurable sexual experience.
Pregnancy: third trimester
During the third trimester, a pregnant woman's libido usually decreases again. This is because their belly gets bigger, their breasts may be swollen and/or painful, and they may feel tired. Women in their third trimester may also gain weight and have to endure back pain, which can also reduce a person's libido.
It's important to note that no two pregnancies are the same, and women may have different cravings, experiences, and sexual desires during different trimesters.
Pregnancy and sex toys: Can I use a vibrator while pregnant?
As mentioned earlier, women tend to experience increased blood flow to their genitals during pregnancy. what does that mean? Intense orgasm! In fact, some even admit to having their best orgasms during pregnancy. Others, however, may find their genital area overly sensitive.
Regardless, orgasm during pregnancy has actually been shown to help reduce stress. A stronger bond can form between partners if they have sex. In other words: an orgasm of the day can keep doctors away (with their permission!)
Keep your vibrator clean (during pregnancy)
If you got the green light from a professional to use a sex toy during pregnancy, it is very important to clean your vibrators thoroughly during pregnancy (actually all the time) and wash them after use.
Using uncleaned sex toys has the potential to spread harmful bacteria. Using clean sex toys can also help prevent vaginal infections. Click here to learn more about how to keep sex toys clean.
Using Vibrators Gently During Pregnancy
Pregnant women should exercise caution when using vibrators. Try not to insert it too deeply and avoid vibrators with sharp edges. This is not because you may be causing harm to the placenta or the baby, but just a precaution to eliminate the possibility of discomfort.
Then it's also possible to experience Braxton Hicks after orgasm, which are basically mild cramps. These are not dangerous, but can cause some pain, so be careful.
When not to use a vibrator during pregnancy
Sex toys and sex are not recommended for women who face complications during pregnancy, such as placenta previa, multiple births, urinary tract infections, cervical weakness, low placenta, vaginal bleeding, and women who may have premature births. However, to confirm these conditions and get tailored advice, it is important to see a doctor.
Also, you may want to be gentler on your vibrator during the first trimester, as this is the window when miscarriage rates are highest. This in no way means that using a vibrator during pregnancy will directly cause a miscarriage. It just means that people should be extra careful and make sure all toys are cleaned before use to avoid contamination.
Can orgasm induce labor?
There is also an old story that sex, or rather - orgasm - can induce labor. This is actually true because orgasms cause uterine contractions. On the other hand, it can also lead to unexpected preterm labor, so the best advice is to do everything in moderation.
While we're on the topic of orgasm, let us remind you of all the wonderful benefits of getting off.
The benefits of orgasm
Mental and physical, orgasm has many well-being benefits…
● It reduces stress by lowering levels of cortisol (the stress hormone)
● it makes you feel warm and tingly because the hormone oxytocin is released
● It can help you sleep better
● It increases the level of estrogen, which helps make the skin look younger
● It gives your face a beautiful glow due to increased blood flow
● It temporarily relieves pain and increases your pain threshold
● It strengthens the pelvic floor, which may help with stronger orgasms in the future
● For men, this is good for your prostate health
●It gives you access to your body and makes you feel more (sexually) confident
Although it is safe for most women and women with vulva to use sex toys during pregnancy, it is always recommended that you consult your GP, midwife or obstetrician. They will determine the health of your pregnancy and ultimately be the one who can give you the green light when it comes to happiness!