Consider these tips before using a prostate massager.
1 Maintain good hygiene. Attention to cleanliness is important for any form of anal play. Proper anal sex safety reduces the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and bacteria. Before trying a prostate massage, use the bathroom and clean yourself thoroughly with a warm tub or shower. Wash your prostate massager before and after each use.
2 Be comfortable. The muscles in and around the anus take time to relax. Light some candles, put on some sexy music, and ease into the experience. If you're having a prostate massage with your partner, be sure to take the time for foreplay. Once you're relaxed and open, find a position that will give you easy access to prostate stimulation. Consider lying on your back, knees up, or face down on your stomach with your partner behind you.
3 Use plenty of lubricating oil. For any form of anal penetration, a large amount is essential. Determine the type of lubricant that works best for you, then keep it off during your prostate massage. Reapply oil frequently. Without proper lubrication, you risk tearing the sensitive tissue of the rectum.
4 Start with one finger. Before using a sex toy for a prostate massage, consider trying fingering to achieve it. For comfort, trim your nails or wear gloves. After applying the lube, slide your fingers an inch or two into the anus and hold there for a moment to allow the sphincter to get used to the sensation. Once comfortable, slide your fingers deeper until you feel a rough bump about three inches into your rectum. Gently rub the upper side of the rectum toward the base of the penis with your fingers in a "come over" motion. If you do this to your partner, make sure you have good communication and listen carefully to what feels good and what doesn't. If there is discomfort or pain, slowly remove your fingers.
5 Find the prostate massager that is right for you. While other types of anal sex toys can stimulate the prostate, such as anal beads and buttocks, prostate massagers are specifically designed to enhance the pleasure zone around the prostate. Do your research to find the right prostate massager for your size and material. As you use the comfortable prostate massager, insert slowly and gently stimulate the prostate as you would with your fingers. Prostate orgasm is possible, but you may need to stimulate other erogenous zones, including the penis, to achieve orgasm.
6 Discuss prostate problems with your doctor. If you are considering prostate massage therapy as a treatment for prostate disease, please consult a medical professional first. Your doctor may do a prostate exam to identify prostate cancer or chronic prostatitis, an inflammation of the prostate. While antibiotics and NSAIDs are commonly used to treat prostatitis, your doctor may also recommend prostate massage as a treatment. Seek immediate medical attention if you experience pain during ejaculation, pelvic pain, or difficulty urinating.