Long-term relationships all suffer from the same disease. It's not that the person you love is getting any less sexy. Not that you've lost interest in seeing them naked. You've just adjusted to living with another person, and now - what was once fiery has turned to icy ashes. Most of the time, when your lover looks at you in the bedroom, it's after a long day at work. You're tired, your hair is falling down, and you've put on your best pair of mismatched but terribly comfy pyjamas -- the opposite of sexy in retrospect.
You don't look your best. You don't even look interested because they're wearing old unsexy pajamas too. What’s wrong with you! Thermal underwear can revive your sensuality and inject something long missing in your sex life - excitement, possibility and new sensations.
In this article, we'll take a closer look at how to use sexy lingerie to rekindle the passion between sheets.
Ladies: Here's Why Your Man Loves Lingerie
If you, like many other women, view lingerie as a special-occasion item—you'd be wrong. In fact,
Lingerie is so much more than that, and the message it sends to your man when you put it on will forever change your perception of that fact.
In an interesting but really relevant study conducted at Concordia University in Montreal - rats were trained to prefer a mate who wore a small jacket. The study sought to understand why men like sexy lingerie so much.
During testing, only virgin male mice were allowed to mate with mice wearing these little jackets. When released to a mixed test group of common rats, males automatically chose to mate again with jacketed rats.
This is because the mice know that when they visually see the jacket, they have sex. The study also found that mice mated with female jackets were happier and generally more excited after sex.
The researchers concluded that mice could learn to associate clothing texture with excitement, looming pleasure and sexuality. In theory, the same is possible with your man. Sexy lingerie triggers a desire response, automatic excitement and anticipation of sex.
Thanks to this scientific explanation, if you match certain underwear to specific sexual behaviors, your lover will learn to respond in a favorable way every time.
Dress for Sexy Success
Couples sex toys can promote intimacy and improve relationships - as evidenced by numerous studies conducted over the years. The question is - if you wear sexy lingerie a lot, how can it stay special?
Because ladies, this is the goal. If you really want to invest in good sex, you want to look better in bed. Eating pancakes every day is great, but it can get boring - unless you're eating pancakes with chocolate sauce twice a week, you're looking forward to it.
Sexy lingerie isn't all the same. There are many different types of materials that you can match to a specific game in the bedroom or a feeling you want to promote on your partner. For example, black leather is great for bondage classes.
When you consider different materials, also consider different styles. The bodice and lace styles are perfect for romantic foreplay and enhance the visual experience your partner experiences while pleasing you. This is when sexy lingerie works with arousal.
As a rule, wear underwear days between your normal pajama days. If you feel like some kind of sex game, put it on to tell him how you feel. Over time, you'll get the right response for proper playback right away.
Men have more visual impact than women, which is why this sort of thing tends to work. But women can also appreciate men's sexy lingerie. On top of that - dressing for sex also prepares you for the excitement to come, it amplifies your excitement, confidence and libido.
5 Ways Underwear Improves Your Sex Life
When you buy a new piece of underwear, you tend to have better sex for a while, and for good reason, according to sex and relationship coach Kait Scalisi.
#1: Underwear empowers.When you wear it, you feel sexy, so the way you behave will attract the opposite sex. It's a personal exhibitionist, especially for your lover, and promises a great time after it's over.
#2: New underwear plays in the mind. Sexy lingerie tends to stay in the memory of the man who had a good time the night before. The desire to have another experience the same as the previous one excites many men, and that lingerie is the source of that interest.
#3: Lingerie puts you in a good mood. Lace and satin enhance sexuality in ways we are just beginning to understand. Feeling sexy and beautiful automatically increases your libido, and your arousal levels start to climb. Catching his eye did the rest.
#4: It brings something new to the bedroom. What is great sex without a little mystery? A quick and easy way to inspire a sense of mystery is to wear new sexy lingerie. Your man has never seen you, so the novelty is still fresh. Novelty encourages libido.
#5: It makes you whoever you want to be. Similar to a pair of sunglasses, the right underwear can add to your personality, enhancing specific features based on what you're wearing. For example, black latex boots might make you feel domineering, perfect for a BDSM game.
Lingerie and the emotions they set
By now, you've realized that sexy lingerie plays a much bigger role in the bedroom than you previously thought. Having a sexy wardrobe is part of the experience, so let's turn to the different moods you can set with your choice of styles and materials.
● Feminine Looks: Pinks and Purples for Everyone! If it feels feminine, then you'll want to add it to your ultra-girly wardrobe. Great game for romantic and general couples.
● Hardcore Look: Black satin, lace, and leather are all the rage in this look, perfect for any game that inspires fun or has power.
● Sporty Look: Cotton underwear can be one of the sexiest lingerie around, especially when paired with a flattering hairstyle. This is good for any time sex or role play.
● Cosplay Dress Up: Dress up as a cosplay to get into your man's heart. Perfect for classic outfits like 'Nurse' and 'Policewoman'.
● Sophisticated Look: Sexy lingerie can also be upscale and sophisticated, in which case you can dress it up to look your best. Satin fashion is perfect for ultra special occasions like weddings.