You need to use your prostate massager correctly and thoughtfully. Improper use can pose a risk. Therefore, there are some very important things to keep in mind when using a prostate massage.
Choose a Prostate Massager Wisely
We have already mentioned that you can choose from thousands of prostate massagers. This is a good thing! However, it can be difficult to determine which product is right for you. Customer reviews are a great resource and a great "ol Google". In general, when you start, you should choose something that is simple and not complicated. If you like the feel of a prostate massage, you can always upgrade.
A simple silicon model is ideal for most beginners, but a stronger plastic, glass, or metal version will feel more accurate. It all depends on what you like. Whichever type of prostate massager (or sex toy for anal insertion) you choose, make sure the base is wide or cuffed. You definitely need some protection against too deep penetration.
Note: Dildos, some butt plugs, and most butt plugs are absolutely great on their own, but they may not be able to target the P-spot exactly as you wish. If you try something other than a prostate massage, make sure the base is wide (flange) and always held firmly.
Don't skip cleanup
A clean butt is a happy butt! Dive into the bathtub or take a shower. Feel free to try anal enemas and enemas as needed. However, it is not required. Not only will you be able to clean up later (you can feel more comfortable around you), but you can also be wonderfully relaxed. This is very important! For insertion into the anus, the anus and sphincter need to be relaxed. Without exception.
Enter the state
You can play with your partner, see and read what you think is super sexy, and touch your favorite masturbator. When excited, the prostate gland swells with water in preparation for orgasm. This swelling helps make it easier to find the p-spot.
Lubricate!
As with any anus, you need to have a lot of lubricant on hand. To be honest, all you have to do is grab the entire bottle. Any good water-based lubricant will do, but many are specially made for anal play.
Take a position
You may need to make a slight twist, but no matter which position you choose, make sure you are relaxed and comfortable. Downward dogs (chest down, hips up) are good for prostate positioning poses, but lie down with one (or both) legs raised or have their legs in the air. You can also lie on your back in the state. You can also kneel on the ground or stand on one leg on a sturdy object. It is important that you or your partner have easy access to your butt.
Calm down
Gently touch, knead and massage around the rectum with your finger or the tip of a prostate massager. Before you go on an adventure, you want to relax. Check the condition of the oil. You can add more as needed. Infiltrate at your own pace. There are two sphincter muscles (muscle bands) that pass before reaching the prostate, so be gentle with them. Take a deep breath, exhale slowly, relax and enjoy this sensation. Calm. Once your massager is in, you can determine what feels good. In some cases, the placements may be slightly off or not well oriented. Carefully adjust the position of the massager or shake the base by hand to feel the pressure.
Prostate Massager Care and Cleaning
Cleaning and proper maintenance of sex toys is important, but special attention should be paid to sex toys and prostate massagers in the anus. There are a lot of (completely natural) bacteria around the buttocks, some of which are 100% likely to attach to the prostate massager.
You need to clean the massager well before and after each use. In most cases, you can thoroughly wipe and rinse every corner with plenty of warm water and a mild detergent. There are also many specific sex toy cleaners available. One of these sprays or foams can be used as a post-rinse finish or as an overall cleansing.
If your prostate massager is a silicone type (or contains a silicone component), you should only use water-based lubricants. Do not use silicone lubricants on silicone prostate massagers. It may damage the surface. Glass, steel, and many plastic or acrylic p-spot massagers are more tolerant of lubrication, so you can choose from water-based, silicone-based, or hybrid varieties.
Does my orgasm get more intense with a prostate massage?
Perhaps! Some prostate massage users report ultra-durability, ultra-intense orgasms, tremors, and even multiple orgasms without actual ejaculation. I'm sure there is no problem! Still Need Some Prostate Massage Inspiration? See the full line of prostate massagers, butt plugs, anal dildos and more. Happy massage!