Dildo sex toys have found their way into most people's bedrooms. A dildo can give you a deeper orgasm, and you can stimulate your inner erogenous zone with a dildo to an overwhelming and intense peak that lasts longer. Some women even experience multiple orgasms as a result.
Exploring these hidden hot spots with sex toys can help you find new ways to please yourself, as well as experiment with different techniques and angles during sex. From beautiful glass rods to lifelike cocks of all shapes and sizes, our dildos help you find the ultimate inner orgasm.
Start from the shallow end
When you choose a dildo to help you find your inner erogenous zone, you don't need to go looking for the longest hole you can get.
Deep penetration can feel amazing (we'll get to that shortly), but if you're looking for G-spot stimulation, you only need to go 2-3 inches into the vagina.
Go for something smaller - it's easy to hold and has a curved tip.
If you already have a 7-incher stashed, you can still use it - just use the extra length for a good grip and only insert the first few inches.
Don't skip the warm-up
If you want to experience an internal orgasm, clitoral arousal can help you get there.
Just above your G-spot is the urethral sponge, which contains Skene's glands. When you're aroused, this gland swells and fills with fluid, which causes the G-spot to become more sensitive and prominent -- so if you're turned on, there's more chance of finding that elusive sweet spot.
or even better? Allow yourself to clitoral orgasm before embarking on your G-spot journey.
location, location, location
Before you experiment with your dildo, it might help to find your G-spot so you know what you're aiming for.
Slide your palms down your belly and insert one or two lubricated fingers into your vagina, curling back in a "come over" motion once they're a few inches deep inside you.
The location of this nerve ending can vary from person to person, but you should now be able to feel the fleshy, ridged area that is different from the rest of the vagina.
Don't sweat the tech
To maximize the amount of stimulation of the G-spot, you need to experiment with angles, types of motion, and stress levels.
Try shallow, rhythmic thrusts, or massage the G-spot by inserting the dildo, then drag the tip across the G-spot as you pull (this works best with slightly curved dildos) and press it against your front wall as you pull out When sliding it back into the vagina.
Rigid toys made of glass and steel are best for this movement because they keep the pressure consistent. The suction cups mean you can hold the toy on a flat surface and get into the right spot to hit those hot spots.
With the right stimulation, you may feel the urge to urinate because the bladder is on the other side of the vaginal wall. Whatever you're doing, stick with it, though, and you may experience an intense inner orgasm.
A is for "aaaaahhhhh don't stop!"
So you've heard of the G-spot orgasm, but there's another elusive erogenous zone with a lot of orgasm potential. Between the front wall of the vagina and the cervix, a few inches deeper than the G spot is the anterior fornix, or A spot.
If you like internal stimulation, this is a very worthwhile sweet spot to unleash an incredibly pleasurable, intense feeling when you're directly stimulated.
If you want to get to that depth, you'll need a slim dildo with a slightly curved tip so it can slide across the cervix without touching it (some people find it uncomfortable).
Experiment with lots of lube and different levels of pressure and rhythm to see what works best.
Double dare
Many people enjoy the "full" feeling of double penetration, and some lucky ones even experience mixed anal and G-spot/A-spot orgasms.
A dildo can help you light up multiple erogenous zones at once and get that intense lip bite.
Try a slim anal probe with a penis, a butt plug that mates with your favorite dildo, 2 dildos, or a dildo and your (or someone else's) finger.
Whatever you're going for anal penetration, make sure it has a flared base or finger ring for safety, and always use plenty of anal lube before you play.
At last...
Yes, we've been talking about it, but it's worth repeating. Lube is essential when you're playing with sex toys, especially when you're inserting them anus. Remember to check that your lube is compatible with your toy (check out our guide if you're not sure).
One more thing: don't get frustrated if you don't orgasm from this thrill the first time. Sometimes patience and practice are all you need, but even if you never get there, there are plenty of other ways to pop your cookies. Everyone is different.
The most important thing is to have fun and find out what feels good. If you have one or two orgasms along the way, that's a bonus!