A dildo is a practical and sexy tool to keep in your pleasure toolbox. Whether you use it on your own or with a partner, it allows you to better explore and discover what's best for your bedroom. Big dildos (and penises) might get everyone's attention, but that doesn't mean smaller dildos don't have much to offer. You don't have to be a plus size queen when you buy a new dildo. You just need to choose what suits you best - any size.
If you're curious about smaller dildos and how to use them, here are five reasons why you might buy it and love it.
More comfortable vaginal insertion
During vaginal penetration, bigger is not always better. Some people suffer from conditions like vaginismus that make penetration difficult, if not completely impossible. Others can be penetrated, but it's painful and makes their sex life miserable. You don't have to endure painful sex. You've probably been given a lot of advice to lube or relax, but it's not always enough. Sometimes you need something smaller.
A thinner dildo, often called a dilator, can help your body become more comfortable during insertion. Even a below-average dildo (only five to six inches) may work. The key is to find something in the right size that makes you feel good.
Anal penetration newbie
Many people start their anal sex experience with butt plugs, beads, and other anal toys. But if you prefer to start with a dildo - especially for strap-on sex, you definitely need something small. In this context, "small" really means slim, possibly smooth. When your body is not used to penetration, it can be very uncomfortable if your sex toy is too wide.
As with any anal play, always add plenty of lube, slow down and stimulate other parts of your body (like your penis or vulva) to help you relax. But starting with a smaller, sleeker dildo certainly helps, too. You can always upgrade to a larger size as you adjust and learn what you like.
Blowjobs Reality and Fantasy
You want to deepthroat your partner -- or whoever you hook up with -- but can't because your gag reflex is too strong? There is nothing wrong with practicing on a dildo. Start with something small and thin before trying larger sizes. It should be something you want to do - not something a gifted partner forces you to do.
Dildos are also great for threesome fantasies, especially blowjobs and penetration. You can pretend you're falling for the third time, when in reality, it's a dildo. Small dildos can also come into play here. You can put more of the shaft down your throat, or you can address the gag reflex.
First double penetration
You can enjoy double penetration in several ways:
● two dicks in the vagina
● two penises in one anus
● penis in vagina and penis in anus
If you're missing a second penis, or you're not ready for two, a small dildo can be a great way to explore double penetration. Again, lots of lubrication, patience, and extra stimulation will help you have a better experience. But when you're first, there's no need to start with a big, thick hole. Play with two small dildos or a combination of your partner and a small dildo until you're ready for something bigger.
Because you like small dildos
You don't have to have a "reason" to play with small dildos other than to like them. You don't have to justify your wishes to anyone. If you like smaller toys, buy them, use them, and drop them off the way you like them. From penetration to blowjob to fantasies, whatever reason you have is your own. Not everyone has to be queen or king.
In conclusion
Bigger is not always better. Sometimes you need a smaller dildo to maximize your pleasure and minimize discomfort. Dildos come in all shapes and sizes, from short and squat to long and thin, and of course behemoth penises — and everything in between. If you want a dildo that's small, thin, and less intimidating, you can find it at the DDZMD adult supermarket.