How Sex Toys Can Elevate Your Masturbation Game?

 

  I recommend masturbating to almost every client of mine, regardless of your gender, sexual orientation or relationship status. Why? The benefits of masturbation are truly endless. According to research, 95% of men and 81% of women will masturbate in their lifetime.

  Having a regular masturbation practice in your life is a regular practice of self-love and self-care in your life. Like other self-love practices, it's important to see how we can change things, maintain variety, and explore new things. Introducing sex toys or other entertainment products into your masturbation/self-sex routine can up the ante considerably.

  Using recreational products or sex toys can help open the door to new and creative sensations that you may like (or learn you don't)

  Maybe you've just used your hands on your body and don't know what it's like to have it. Using entertainment products or sex toys can help you open the door to new and creative sensations that you may like (or know you don't). Maybe you just have your hands on your body and don't know what it's like to have a stroking device, blowjob simulator, vibrator (buzz or rumble!) or heavy steel toy on or inside your body! Using these toys during masturbation, you open the door to learning sensations that you might not even know your body might have. Then you can decide if you want to keep this feeling during solo sex, or tell your partner and share it!

  It keeps you curious and learns new things about yourself Improves body awareness

  Have you ever heard someone talk about their partner as if they've been together for so long that it's impossible for them to learn anything new about them? As if every day we live do not change and evolve? As we integrate sex toys and entertainment products into our masturbation practice, we encourage ourselves to be curious and learn new things. Just as we want to keep up to date with our partners, we also want to know those things about ourselves.

  You can explore all types of orgasms

  Sex toys are designed to do things the human body can't -- like vibrating continuously for 20 minutes -- which creates opportunities for new and different types of orgasms. Did you know that people with vaginas have more than 11 orgasms and people with penises have 7 orgasms? If you're thinking, "Wait, whaaaaaat?" Yes! And, you can definitely reach some, but not all, of them without sex toys. Some of them need help with toys, so there's another reason to stock up.

  It will help you to use sex toys + entertainment products more comfortably with your partner

  Often, it feels safer to try new sexual behaviors with your partner. This varies from person to person, but when you're embarrassed or nervous about how you're reacting physically or emotionally, trying it yourself first can help lighten the load. If you know you like a mini wand compared to a full size wand, you can better communicate with your partner and understand what you want based on the feeling you're after. Plus, you can take the toy with you to show your partner what you like. It could be a great bonding experience.

  

       You’ll be celebrating your sexuality and decreasing shame around sex toys


  What is my body doing? When you buy a nice sex toy and visit their website and see nice, positive sex messages, you start to wonder, how can something so nice be ashamed? It's a tool for self-care and happiness! Buying sex toys can really build strength.

  Introducing a sex toy (or 10) or other entertainment products can elevate your masturbation game. In addition, masturbation generally helps your heart health, elevates your mood (helps with issues like stress, anxiety, and/or depression), and is a wonderful way to connect with your sexual self. We need to start integrating sex toys and entertainment products into our masturbation practice as exploration and play. We often fall into the same masturbation habit, and in addition to all the benefits listed above, you will also get rid of this habit.

  So, what toy should you try first?

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